Day 143 - Thursday 25th November 2010. Funeral Update

For all those Concerned The funeral arrangements are as follows:

A funeral mass to take place at 11:30 at St Mary's church, Chart road, Sutton Valence
The coffin will be in-situ at the church . Following this service, a second ceremony will take place at Charring Crematorium at 12:40 for those who would wish to attend.
Following the service the funeral party will return to Sutton Valence village hall for tea and coffee etc. In accordance with Vikki's wishes no flowers have been requested, but those who knew Vikki, are invited to bring a single pink rose or carnation as they would not be out of place.
As to Donations, Vikki's request was that a fund be set up for Cory and Toby's education. Those people who are wishing to donate, there will be a plate at the back of the church for anyone wishing to do this.

At this time we would like to yet again offer our thanks for the heartfelt support shown to the family.

Day 138 Saturday 20th November 2010

HELLO, It's the husband also known as Maurice .

The arrangements are now in place and will be put at the end of the blog . What I wanted to say is a big thank you to some very special people who through all that has been going on in the Vikkis world have without any question helped myself and the boys as well as Vikki cope with the rigours of daily life mum in law, and Laurie, Janet, Jo and the girls from the careers who made Vikki's last few days so happy I would often take a ticket to see my own wife, and what a wife. Life will never be the same the boys have lost a mum, I lost a lot, lot more, but I have the best of memories that will stay with me forever my love to all the bloggers and I hope to see you all at the special day celebrating the life of my beautiful wife Vikki , God bless you all.









FRIDAY 3rd December 2010 Mass at St Marys Church Sutton valence Followed by Service at the ceremetium at Charring and tea coffee cake sandwiches at the village hall sutton valence

all are welcome Please note no Flowers at vikkis request

Day 136 - Thursday 18th November 2010

Sadly, Vikki has passed away. We all feel very sad, if you would, can you please pray for her. As we came down and saw Vikki, she looked very peaceful and calm. Dad stayed up all night with Vikki. There is an emptyness to our lives, that only our mother could fill.

We thank you for reading this blog, as it made Vikki feel special and made some difference to peoples lives.
Keep reading this blog as Dad will be posting details about the funeral arrangements.


This blog was written by Toby and Cory.

Day 132 Sunday 14th November 2010

Today is rememberance sunday, so today lets all remember the good times. I can no longer communicate, and I am slowly leaving this mortal Earth, but the time I've had, although short, has been forfilled by my two beautiful boys, and my loving husband Maurice. To all my friends, and fellow bloggers, I hope you have enjoyed and gained some deep understanding of how life can be turned upside-down to make every day count.

All my love, Vikki. xxx




This blog has been written by Toby, Cory and Maurice. We think that it is very important that you know how Vikki is feeling and what is going on. Sadly, we think it is not going to be much longer.

day126,mon 8th nov

Feeling very tired as i have morphine patches now to help with the pain.

Had a lovely weekend with my family, love spending time with my boys, all 3 of them.

Maurice did some fireworks outside my window for me, what a star!

Maurice also bought me a super duper new phone, a galaxy tab...it is fantastic!It makes texting so much easier for me, so everyone that has recently received texts from me can expect a better effort in future!

thanks to Jo for doing the blog today

day 121 weds 3rd nov

What would you say if you were told that your brother had been made redundant after many years with the same company???

But what would you say if you had not seen him for 12 years,or heard anything from him???

Now i hear he has been reading my blog and wants to visit me!!!!
Bad timing i say!!!!! Cant say im looking my best at the moment!!!

But i want to know...is he coming to see me for him,or for me?????? I await his phonecall, with anticipation!!

Have now seen gemmas bike out of the window...looks amazing!!

Looking forward to fireworks night as Cory and I love sparklers,and we are getting a BIG box of them!!!


Thanks to Jo for typing this up!

Day 119-monday 1st Nov

Pleased to say internet now up and running, so blog continues!!
Weekend went far too quickly,and this morning sees Toby back at school.Thanks to him for all the care he has given me over the holiday.
Feeling very tired,but the hospital bed is a godsend,which is just as well as i am spending alot of time in it!!
Later today,energy dependant, i am aiming to start playing my new DS game,proffessor Layton!!! Should be interesting!
Looking out of my window, i am noticing the leaves rapidly changing, turning browner by the day! Soon be bare i fear!!
My lovely carer (one of them, they are all lovely!),has been given the title carer of the month...a well deserved honour..well done Gemma!.Still no improvement in my flexibility on left side, a real nuisance!!!
Still enjoying my favourite tipple....hot chocolate with squirty cream and chocolate sprinkles....jos speciality!!
Thanks to Jo for typing this blog!